Please use this forum to post all your questions about MY sweetening jar. I won’t answer questions about some other hedge workers’ jar works. Ok? Alright let’s go!
The thing about the sugar jar that a lot of people seem to not understand is that the jar DOES NOT draw a person to you. So it is not a LOVE WORKING!!! To understand how it works you have to understand a little southern terminology. Down here, when someone has a romantic interest in you, we say that the person "is sweet on you". So if you're at work and the manager is looking at you all the time, you co-worker might say "Hey, the boss is sweet on you". Sweetness down here is a sign that things are going good. "My money sure is sweet this month", "Girl that stuff is sweet", "That man has some sweet....", that new car sure looks sweet". Get the picture. So on the flip side, when something is going bad, its said to have turned SOUR. "Sour stomach", "Wearing a sour puss (Mean face)", and even a person who is acting bad is said to have soured on you. Following me? So the purpose of a Sweetening Jar is to turn something that has gone sour back sweet. IT DOES NOT attract someone or something to you. It just sweetens them back up. The problem that folks are having now is that they don't understand that someone may break up with us WITHOUT BEING SOUR. They still love us, or "Are sweet on us". They just decided that the relationship isn't for them. Either do to their own or our own actions. If this is the case, a sweetening jar isn't the right working to do. I hope this clears some things up.